flag id: three flags with 3 stripes, with the second being half the size of the rest. the top flag’s stripes are dull purple, pale purple, and dull dark indigo. the bottom left flag’s stripes are blue, pale blue, and dark dull purple. the bottom right flag’s stripes are dull pink, dull light pink, and dark blue. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
tamme
dammish tomme | tommish damme
tamme: being both a tomme and a damme; a bi woman who both subverts societal expectations of womanhood by performing their version of femininity and rejects societal expectations of womanhood by performing something other than femininity (masculinity, neutrality, androgyny, etc.)
dammish tomme: a tomme who is somewhat a damme; a tomme with a connection to dammehood; a tamme who is more tomme than damme
tommish damme: a damme who is somewhat a tomme; a damme with a connection to tommehood; a tamme who is more damme than tomme
[pt: tamme: being both a tomme and a damme; a bi woman who both subverts societal expectations of womanhood by performing their version of femininity and rejects societal expectations of womanhood by performing something other than femininity (masculinity, neutrality, androgyny, etc.)
dammish tomme: a tomme who is somewhat a damme; a tomme with a connection to dammehood; a tamme who is more tomme than damme
tommish damme: a damme who is somewhat a tomme; a damme with a connection to tommehood; a tamme who is more damme than tomme. end pt]
for anon! the definitions and flags for tomme and damme can be found here. the tamme flag was made by overlaying the two and the dammish tomme and tommish damme flags are those flags with their bottom stripes swapped with the other.
(note: the coiner states in the coining post of tomme and damme that you can’t be both, nor lean towards one term while being the other. this is exclusionist rhetoric and entirely false, and they can’t stop bi women from fitting under both terms at the same time.)
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